We inquire when we are curious, and we are curious when we care. We inquire when we observe ourselves, when we observe others around us and when we observe how others respond to us and to others. Inquiry becomes a superpower, when we have a genuine care and concern for the well-being of others.
On the other hand, people who are generally not curious are mostly self-absorbed. Their care is limited to those who serve their interest or those who are in their circle of concern.
Inquiry is a great gift that we offer others, as it lets them know that we are available for a real connection. When we genuinely enquire into both, ourselves and others, we accept, encourage and invite everyone to participate and show up fully. This, in particular becomes important when someone is in discomfort or feels the need to be right, and it opens up a room to share unique insights.
When people are operating from their left brains, it is not in their nature to inquire very often, since their focus is often on getting the job done. On the other hand, when people operate from their right brain, they are curious about how they are showing up and how the other person is showing up. This provides a refreshing perspective and a neurological reset.
So do go ahead, engage your right brain, show genuine care and concern, if you have it within you, despite having a busy schedule and enquire. You will make meaningful connections with people who truly matter, that will last a lifetime.
